I am Ralf Bönder – psychological counsellor and coach, with a background in traditional school service as a teacher, head teacher, inclusion consultant/school inspector; special educational expertise; systemic counselling. My credo has always been: diversity is enriching and not a hindrance.

I use my experience in counselling and coaching settings – optionally with interventions – in a process-oriented manner with people who want to go their own way (self-exploring). My aim is to support and advise them in their desire for change. I offer help for self-help – when a conscious decision for change has been made.

The focus is on the individual or the core of the whole:
Have the courage to live who you are – or: Start living, stop playing.

I enjoy working with people who perceive themselves to be in a state of inner imbalance or in conflict with the outside world. Indicators can be varied and complex – such as conflicts, role ambiguity, self-image, the system in which one finds oneself. The decisive factors here are personal patterns and the individual mindset (self-awareness, self-change, self-acceptance).

The goal of coaching is to uncover the core – with respect and responsibility as your own chairman. Recognise resources. Space for development is created.